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August 17, 2008

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jacqueline

i wish mccain would stop referring to me as his "friend."
as long as he condones the kind of sinister innuendos in his political ads
that are very unchristian in message, and as long as he does not denounce
some of the truthless and hurtful propaganda against barack obama, he cannot reach out in friendship.
these are not words or actions that entitle anyone to reach out in friendship.

i appreciated barack's response, that the people he is closest with and trusts the most, are the ones he would reach out to as a sounding board.
i would have thought that mccain might have said that his steadfast and everpresent wife might be more of a trusted sounding board than meg whitman, or a military commander....we can go to specialists for advice, but the people that we love and trust the most are often the ones that give us our courage and are our spiritual guides to do the right thing.

jacqueline

and just a second thought....

i may be wrong about this, but i believe that deliberateness, and meanings of words actually matter to barack obama.
i dont think he would use the word, "friends"...in the casual and constant manner that mccain does.
when mccain says, "my friends..." it feels salesmanesque and ingratiating...a sincerity that is a mile wide and an inch deep.
trying to create an artificial sense of good will when you are trying to sell someone something. a technique you might learn in a sales seminar....
perhaps this may seem like a small thing...but in a forum about faith and social~spiritual connections, the way someone consistently uses the word "friend" reveals a lot. about authenticity.

K

I stopped counting the "my friends" at nineteen because I didn't have much hair left to pull out.

McCain gives me the creeps. Seriously. In many ways, I fear a McCain presidency would be even worse than Bush -- and, let's face it, that's quite a threshold to cross.

Lisa Simeone

"Seriously. In many ways, I fear a McCain presidency would be even worse than Bush -- and, let's face it, that's quite a threshold to cross."

I can't believe it, but I fear you're right. I, too, have started to say that I'm afraid McCain might actually be more destructive than Bush. I still can't believe I'm saying this. But he is so scary.

low-tech cyclist

Is there anywhere online that one can view the forum? Or any chance it will be replayed on broadcast (not cable) TV? Everybody's talking about it, but I haven't even seen a link to a transcript, let alone a video.

Snoskred

I find the my friends thing to be horribly patronising. Mccain almost uses it as a comma and something to say while he's thinking of what he's going to say next.

I'm from Australia so I don't have a vote in this election but if I did, my friends, I can guarantee it would not be going to a man with a combover. I personally believe that someone wearing a combover has to have low self esteem, might be slightly deluded and possibly even mentally ill.

How can one get up in the morning and take ones hair which on one side probably reaches ones shoulder, and then gel and mousse that hair to the point that it will stick to ones scalp through gale force winds or even a tornado - and actually think that people believe it is real hair? If a man does not have the balls to accept that they are bald and cut off those scraps of hair, how can they possibly lead a nation?

I'm not joking.. and when you combine this delusion that people will believe that combover = real hair with the fact that one is probably suffering post traumatic stress from being imprisoned many years ago especially considering he seems to feel the need to raise that subject so regularly when it was quite a number of years ago.. can anyone truly in good conscience hand over the nuclear missile launch codes to this man?

Cheers,
Snoskred

Ankush

LTC: You can see it at C-Span's website. On the home page's Recent Programs module, there is a link for both the Obama and McCain segments.

janinsanfran

I support Obama, but in my opinion his response on welfare (as reported by AP -- didn't view it) was a form of race pandering. Wrote up my response here. I get touchy about welfare.

low-tech cyclist

Ankush - thanks!

Snoskred - as far as I'm concerned, the comb-over is a rather minor bit of vanity that is hardly unique to our time. I'm reading Barbara Tuchman's A Distant Mirror, a book about Europe in the 14th Century. A fellow with a comb-over is described in that book.

MR Bill

Low-tech, "A Distant Mirror" is one of my favorite books to reread. I will now have to look for the combover...
And, for what it's worth, I went to North Carolina to see my parents yesterday. (It's only 60 miles) I generally avoid politics and most religion (they are Pentacostal, I got to the Unitarian Universalist church when I go at all), and they had watched the Warren show with great interest.
They are firmly in the Obama column, as are (I was suprised to learn) a lot of members of of their church, who have decided that the Republicans have messed up, are dishonest, and the party of the rich.
They were very offended by Walmart telling it's associates to vote for McCain. And think McCain a 'decent man', "it's just the people he represents that I can't stand" said my Dad. These are the classic Reagan Democrats, who are now 'Heath Schuler Democrats'..
I know Schuler is not particularly beloved (as a Blue Dog) but a change has happened in the solidly Republican South. It may be very different this November, if my folks are more that just an anecdote.

low-tech cyclist

Apparently McCain wasn't in Rick Warren's 'cone of silence' the entire time Warren and Obama were talking; he was, by his own campaign's account, in his motorcade, enroute, for part of the Obama-Warren conversation.

Obviously, only he and his aides would know whether he tuned in to a CNN feed in his limo. But apparently that would be impossible, because McCain's a former POW:

"The insinuation from the Obama campaign that John McCain, a former prisoner of war, cheated is outrageous," [McCain campaign spokesperson Nicolle] Wallace said.

Of course, McCain did in fact cheat on his first wife. Repeatedly. While a former POW.

Evidently there's a substantial time lag between the time one is a POW and the time one stops being a cheater. It would be interesting if someone would ask the McCain campaign just what the time lag typically tends to be.

ivb

Thanks for your observations.

According to a post by dday at Digby's blog, McCain's story of the guard drawing a cross in the sand may have first been told by others in relation to their experiences and in fiction.

http://digbysblog.blogspot.com/2008/08/if-nose-grows-in-forest.html

oddjob

i would have thought that mccain might have said that his steadfast and everpresent wife might be more of a trusted sounding board than meg whitman, or a military commander

Given that he has, in front of reporters, called her a cunt who makes herself up like a trollop, and given that he has refused to answer the question of whether he has been faithful to Cindy, I'm not surprised he didn't mention her.

brian

My wife mentioned that CNN will re-run the program on Wednesday night (8/20)

Merla Long

My friends is such a phony salutation proves he is OLD
It is something my grandfather may have said when he was
at the pulpit
J.McCain couldn't answer the question of "who" is the middle class. Surprised all of you didn't "GET IT".
He wandered around trying to be funny with "i want all americans to be rich" statement. NEVER answering the question. Something CNN's Lou Dobbs won't answer either.

Observer

All the "cross in the sand" story tells us, if we accept it as face value, was that a Vietnamese guard was willing to risk much by showing his devoutness to a prisoner.

It doesn't say a thing about McCain.

Personally I disbelieve the story.

DrBB

Mention his wife and helpmeet? McCain? Not hardly. I'm curious how the CCs feel about Mr StraightTalk offering to have his (2nd) wife do a striptease for a bunch of rowdy bikers at the Sturgis rally. Oh, and just for yucks, let's imagine how unimaginable the sh**storm would have been if Obama had offered to have Michelle do the same.

Nancy Irving

I agree with the comb-over comment.

I notice that Rudy Giuliani got rid of his when he decided to run for the top job.

Have we ever had a U.S. president with a comb-over?

If not, would a McCain presidency thus be "historic"? :)

mike m

IVB..where did you get the comment that McCain called is wife a cunt and a trollop...Ive never heard this before...and if it's credible, i.e. documented, it should be in all the headlines....

SL

Nancy for your review (Article from Raw story about new McCain Bio). Feel free to delete if I have broken a rule.

John McCain's temper is well documented. He's called opponents and colleagues "shitheads," "assholes" and in at least one case "a fucking jerk."
But a new book on the presumptive Republican nominee will air perhaps the most shocking angry exchange to date.

The Real McCain by Cliff Schecter, which will arrive in bookstores next month, reports an angry exchange between McCain and his wife that happened in full view of aides and reporters during a 1992 campaign stop. An advance copy of the book was obtained by RAW STORY.

Three reporters from Arizona, on the condition of anonymity, also let me in on another incident involving McCain's intemperateness. In his 1992 Senate bid, McCain was joined on the campaign trail by his wife, Cindy, as well as campaign aide Doug Cole and consultant Wes Gullett. At one point, Cindy playfully twirled McCain's hair and said, "You're getting a little thin up there." McCain's face reddened, and he responded, "At least I don't plaster on the makeup like a trollop, you cunt." McCain's excuse was that it had been a long day. If elected president of the United States, McCain would have many long days.

The man who was known as "McNasty" in high school has erupted in foul-languaged tirades at political foes and congressional colleagues more-or-less throughout his career, and his quickness to anger has been an issue on the presidential campaign trail as evidence of his fury has surfaced.

As Schecter notes, McCain's rage is not limited to the political spectrum, and even his family cannot be spared the brute force of his anger.

Schecter, who also blogs at The Agonist, said in an interview the anecdote is "an early example of his uncontrollable temper." In the book he outlines several other examples of McCain losing his cool and raises the question of how that would affect a McCain presidency.

What should voters make of this pattern? In February 2008 Tim Russert succinctly described McCain on MSNBC's Morning Joe. A devilish grin spread from ear to ear as Russert, no McCain hater, leaned forward and spoke in a whisper, "He likes to fight." Russert got it right. But the big question isn't whether McCain likes to fight: it's who, when, and how.

The exchange between McCain and his wife was not reported anywhere when it happened, Schecter said (a LexisNexis database search confirms this). In 1992, McCain's mention in the national media revolved mostly around his involvement in the Keating Five scandal, and only local reporters closely followed his re-election bid.

McCain is well known for his rapport with the national media covering his presidential bid (he's jokingly referred to the press as "my base"), but Schecter said this incident was buried not out of fealty to the Arizona senator. Rather, it was uneasiness about how to get such a coarse exchange into a family newspaper, and he didn't fault the local press for not covering the incident.

"Members of the media are squeamish covering stuff like this so they let it go," Schecter told RAW STORY in an interview Monday. "Back in '92, when people use naughty words, [reporters] don't know as much what to do with it."

Much has changed since then. President Bush's reference to a New York Times reporter as a "major league asshole" was reported in at least 47 newspapers during the 2000 campaign, when the off-color remark was overheard, according to a database search. And more than a dozen newspapers have reported Dick Cheney's recommendation that Sen. Patrick Leahy "fuck yourself."

McCain and his aides have brushed off suggestions that his temper could impede his ability to perform the sometimes-delicate tasks asked of a president. The candidate was asked about his legendary temper last week on "Fox News Sunday," where he cited his ability to work "across the aisle" while in the Senate.

"You can't scare people or intimidate them if you're going to reach agreement with your colleagues and your contemporaries And I've worked hard at that, and that's what the American people want," McCain said. " The second thing is if I lose my capacity for anger, then I shouldn't be president of the United States. ... When I see the waste and corruption in Washington, I get angry."

McCain's campaign did not return a call from RAW STORY seeking comment Monday morning.

Schecter says McCain's anger is much more than a passion for the issues. One can only imagine what would happen if McCain were to try to squeeze that temper into the tight confines of diplomacy.

"The public certainly has to know what this guy might do as president," Schecter says. Examples like the ones in his book "should worry people, quite frankly."

Jill

I'm surprised you didn't note the passive voice McCain used in referring to "the failure of his first marriage." His marriage didn't "fail", he dumped it because a younger, prettier, and perhaps most importantly, wealthier woman came along. I wrote about John McCain's self-centered notion of Christianity here. I may not be a Christian, but I know someone who's just giving lip service for political gain when I see one -- and McCain is a mean-spirited, narcissistic man whose only use for religion is to gain him the presidency that he believes is his just payment owed to him because he was a POW. Funny how he's the ONLY POW IN AMERICA who believes that the presidency is the currency for what he endured.

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