A very good friend of mine who is a long time activist in the women's community in DC advises me that the apostates in the group, i.e. Obama supporters, have taken to saying "I haven't given any money to a candidate yet" as a code to indicate to others (whom they suspect are sympathetic) that they are not backing Hillary Clinton -- okay it's not as cool as asking "are you a friend of Dorothy's" but I like it. Evidently, it is still considered bad form to overtly back Obama a la NARAL and there is fear that it will be professionally harmful.